A New Year: No Resolutions (Yet) and More Packing (Hopefully)

Happy new year, everyone! I hope your holiday celebrations were wonderful and everything you wanted them to be. Mine were crammed full of deadlines, as seems to be the norm for me at this time of the year, and when I add that on top of everything else that’s been going on in my life, it’s been quite a busy two weeks or so.

I’ve been so busy, in fact, I haven’t had any time at all to think about the new year. Normally at this time of the year I have all these fabulous ideas about new habits I want to incorporate or fun-sounding challenges I want to undertake. That hasn’t happened yet because I’ve been so busy, so I’m kind of postponing my end of the year thinking to somewhere around the third week of January, which is when my work deadlines start slowing down to a more gentle, manageable pace.

On top of the deadlines, and all the Christmas things one has to fit in at this time of the year, I’ve also been apartment hunting! My ex- and I have decided things would work out far, far better if we found our own individual places, but within the same apartment building.

At first, the plan was to find two units on the same floor. And while we did actually find two such units—and lovely units they were, too, as well as being only two doors apart—unfortunately we put in our offers too late. In the time between us deciding we wanted to put in our offers and our actually putting in the offers (between which basically fell Christmas Day and Boxing Day) a set of earlier, competing offers had come in. So we lost out on the units. Very unfortunate.

After this, it dawned on us how difficult it would be if we continued to confine ourselves only to units that were on the same floor. Not only would we have to actually find such units, but then we’d have to have both our offers accepted, and the fact that one offer would be conditional on the other would make things even more challenging.

So after some thinking things over, and further discussions with our son Dylan—after all, he’s the one who will be going back and forth between the units—the joint consensus is that two units in the same building would work just as well. A quick elevator ride between floors takes mere minutes, and the plan is for Dylan to be comfortable going back and forth whenever he likes.

Anyway, all this means there will be more packing in my near future! The rental market is fast-paced here in Toronto, with lots of units coming up for lease but also lots of units being leased every day, so I’m keeping my fingers crossed we’ll find new places soon. I’m looking forward to truly having my own space, and in many ways I feel like life is on hold until I move.

With all of this going on, you probably won’t be surprised I haven’t done much reading lately. Mostly I’ve been listening to BBC dramatizations of Agatha Christie mysteries while I’m working. They’re great in the background, and since I’ve read each of the novels being dramatized a zillion times or so, it’s like “comfort noise”, and really helps me get through my deadlines more quickly (or at least, that’s what it feels like!).

And then, in the hour or so between work and sleep, I’ve been finding myself watching episodes of Poirot on Netflix. It’s been interesting to see the novels transformed onto the small screen (truly small, as I watch them on my iPad). And while there’s the familiar comfort of plots and characters I know well, I am actually even more in love with the series sets. Poirot is set in the 20s, and to my surprise I am really enjoying all the architectural and design details, as well as the clothes and accessories.

So that’s my new year’s update. How did your new years go? What resolutions or new habits are you looking to incorporate into this bright and shiny new year?

10 thoughts on “A New Year: No Resolutions (Yet) and More Packing (Hopefully)

  1. Kay

    I think your plan is a great one. And if you are in the same building, it shouldn’t be too much of a problem. Here’s hoping that 2 great apartments become available soon. I love the fact that you are listening and watch Christie stories. I have no problem believing that they are ‘just the thing’ right now. I’ve found them quite comforting at stressful times. Happy New Year to you and here’s to a wonderful 2016! Hugs!

  2. Suey

    I can’t believe you have to move again! But here’s hoping this will be the final answer and all will be well and settled and happy soon. Good luck to you!

  3. Tasha B (heidenkind)

    Yay more moving. :p But it does sound better for everyone involved. Good luck apartment hunting!

  4. Bernadette

    I might have to steal the phrase comfort noise…I’ve got some audio books that are like that for me…Dick Francis novels read by Tony Britton and the series you introduced me to – Chris Grabenstein’s John Ceepak novels read by Jeff Woodman. I had a rough few months last year and I had one or other of these playing most of the time.

    Best of luck with the apartment hunting

  5. Bryan G. Robinson

    I’ll look forward to seeing your end of the year/beginning of the year thinking whenever you post about it here.

    So sounds like you’re really into Agatha Christie right now? Or were…when you wrote this. Are you still?

    New Year’s here was okay. Main resolution is to (One Word for the new year) “reinvigorate” my life in 2016, although right now, to be honest, I feel like taking a nap. Plus it’s kind of gray here today so that kind of day.


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